{"id":7315,"date":"2026-06-25T10:57:13","date_gmt":"2026-06-25T07:57:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/taitung.eu\/?p=7315"},"modified":"2026-06-25T10:57:21","modified_gmt":"2026-06-25T07:57:21","slug":"relatia-dintre-parinti-si-adolescenti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/taitung.eu\/index.php\/relatia-dintre-parinti-si-adolescenti\/","title":{"rendered":"Rela\u021bia dintre p\u0103rin\u021bi \u0219i adolescen\u021bi"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>O \u00eentrebare care m-a pus pe g\u00e2nduri a fost: \u201cCe s-a \u00eent\u00e2mplat?\u201d De ce acum, ca adolescen\u021bi, nu mai \u0219tim s\u0103 comunic\u0103m a\u0219a cum o f\u0103ceam \u00eenainte cu p\u0103rin\u021bii no\u0219tri? Poate avem impresia c\u0103 ei cu siguran\u021b\u0103 nu o s\u0103 ne \u00een\u021beleag\u0103 \u0219i ne e fric\u0103 s\u0103 nu ne judece sau s\u0103 ne certe. De ce? De ce ni s-a r\u0103cit rela\u021bia cu ei? Ce am putea face s\u0103 remediem situa\u021bia?<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Eu cu siguran\u021b\u0103 nu am reu\u0219it s\u0103 dau de cap\u0103t acestor \u00eentreb\u0103ri \u0219i nedumeriri ale mele, care deveneau din ce \u00een ce mai multe. A\u0219a c\u0103 am ales s\u0103 o \u00eentreb pe Voichi\u021ba Dumitru, psiholog principal specializat \u00een psihologie clinic\u0103, psihoterapie cognitiv comportamental\u0103, psihoterapia traumei &#8211; atestat \u00een EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing). Citindu-i\u00a0 competen\u021bele nu prea \u00een\u021belegi multe lucruri, te sperie oarecum. Odat\u0103 ce ajungi s\u0103 o cuno\u0219ti, tot ce pare complicat se simplific\u0103.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>E\u021a<\/strong>:\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Ce p\u0103rere ave\u021bi despre rela\u021bia actual\u0103 dintre p\u0103rin\u021bi \u0219i copii? \u0218i de ce copiii\/adolescen\u021bii resimt uneori c\u0103 nu se mai pot apropia de p\u0103rin\u021bi a\u0219a de mult, c\u0103 rela\u021bia lor se distan\u021beaz\u0103?<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-7320 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/taitung.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/Picture1-1-300x176.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"176\" srcset=\"https:\/\/taitung.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/Picture1-1-300x176.jpg 300w, https:\/\/taitung.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/Picture1-1.jpg 348w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>DV<\/strong>:\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Exist\u0103 dou\u0103 motive. Sunt: (1) categoria de p\u0103rin\u021bi care niciodat\u0103 n-au v\u0103zut nevoile autentice ale copiilor, de a-i securiza emo\u021bional, de a sta de vorb\u0103 cu ei, de a petrece pu\u021bin timp cu ei \u0219i de calitate, \u0219i (2) categoria cealalt\u0103 de p\u0103rin\u021bi care se las\u0103 distra\u0219i de munc\u0103, de stres, de problemele lor de zi cu zi financiare, a\u0219a \u00eenc\u00e2t copilul devine o cantitate neglijabil\u0103. Adic\u0103 e acel obiect care vine acas\u0103 de la \u0219coal\u0103, \u00eel \u00eentreab\u0103 : \u201eCe ai f\u0103cut? C\u00e2t ai luat? Cum a fost ast\u0103zi? \u2026 bine du-te f\u0103-\u021bi temele.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><strong>E\u021a:\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 <\/strong>\u0218i c\u00e2t de tare \u00eel afecteaz\u0103 pe copil acest lucru?<\/p>\n<p><strong>DV:<\/strong>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Foarte mult.\u00a0 Foarte mult. Pentru c\u0103 de fapt, cum \u0219i spui, adolescentul este tot un copil, care are nevoie \u00een continuare de a fi \u00een nevoile simbiotice de iubire cu p\u0103rintele lui, s\u0103 fie bine primit acas\u0103. Da?! S\u0103 i se spun\u0103 : \u201eM\u0103 bucur c\u0103 ai venit acas\u0103. Cum \u021bi-a fost ziua ta ast\u0103zi? Dac\u0103 ai \u00eent\u00e2mpinat ceva probleme? Cum te-a f\u0103cut s\u0103 te sim\u021bi?\u201d Foarte pu\u021bini p\u0103rin\u021bi stau s\u0103 discute cu adolescentul lor, f\u0103r\u0103 a fi focusa\u021bi pe nevoile emo\u021bionale reale ale acestuia. De regul\u0103 adolescen\u021bii trebuie s\u0103 ating\u0103 ni\u0219te standarde, ei trebuie s\u0103 fie foarte buni, ei trebuie s\u0103 ob\u021bin\u0103 rezultate bune, s\u0103 \u00eenve\u021be \u0219i cam at\u00e2t .<\/p>\n<p><strong>E\u021a<\/strong>: \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 De ce au p\u0103rin\u021bii aceste preten\u021bii de la adolescen\u021bi?<\/p>\n<p><strong>DV:<\/strong>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 E o cultur\u0103. Mul\u021bi se realizeaz\u0103 prin copii. Ceea ce n-au putut ei s\u0103 realizeze, consider\u0103 c\u0103 pot s\u0103 fac\u0103 copiii lor, \u0219i atunci pun presiune pe ei: \u201cDac\u0103 n-am reu\u0219it eu, atunci cu siguran\u021b\u0103, sunt p\u0103rintele lui, \u00eei asigur toate condi\u021biile; hran\u0103, cas\u0103, loc de dormit, \u0219i el trebuie s\u0103 fac\u0103 totul.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Mai exist\u0103 \u0219i cei care se ghideaz\u0103 dup\u0103 modele, nu? \u201eCe-i bine ast\u0103zi s\u0103 fi? Doctor, avocat, judec\u0103tor. Po\u021bi s\u0103 fi un artist? Vai de capul meu! Da\u2019 tu ce realizezi dac\u0103 e\u0219ti artist?\u201d Un adolescent care vrea s\u0103 se fac\u0103 artist aproape c\u0103 e ignorat de familie.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-7319 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/taitung.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/Picture2-2-300x185.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"185\" srcset=\"https:\/\/taitung.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/Picture2-2-300x185.jpg 300w, https:\/\/taitung.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/Picture2-2.jpg 485w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>E\u021a:\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 <\/strong>Cum ar putea adolescentul s\u0103-\u0219i fac\u0103 curaj s\u0103-\u0219i \u00eenfrunte p\u0103rin\u021bii? S\u0103 le spun\u0103 ce-l deranjeaz\u0103 ca s\u0103 \u00eencerce s\u0103-\u0219i repare rela\u021bia?<\/p>\n<p><strong>DV:<\/strong>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Ca s\u0103 poat\u0103 un copil s\u0103 se deschid\u0103 \u00een rela\u021bie cu p\u0103rin\u021bii, ace\u0219tia trebuie \u00eenc\u0103 de c\u00e2nd e copilul mic s\u0103 aib\u0103 o rela\u021bie de egalitate, nu de dominan\u021b\u0103. Iar acest lucru exist\u0103 \u00een pu\u021bine cazuri, \u0219i doar \u00een acelea adolescentul reu\u0219e\u0219te s\u0103 se deschid\u0103 \u00een fa\u021ba p\u0103rin\u021bilor, s\u0103 spun\u0103 ce simte. Pentru c\u0103 \u0219i dac\u0103 \u00eencearc\u0103, \u00eentr-o familie care poate nu e at\u00e2t de deschis\u0103 \u00een comunicarea cu copilul, s\u0103-\u0219i expun\u0103 o problem\u0103 automat, i se pune o etichet\u0103. Sau este ignorat\u0103 problema lui.<\/p>\n<p><strong>E\u021a:\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 <\/strong>Cum sun\u0103 o astfel de etichet\u0103?<\/p>\n<p><strong>DV:<\/strong>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 \u201cTu nu \u00een\u021belegi\u201d, \u201c L\u0103sa c\u0103 tu n-ai griji, doar de \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat\u201d.<\/p>\n<p><strong>E\u021a:\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 <\/strong>Cum evolueaz\u0103 un adolescent care se distan\u021beaz\u0103 de p\u0103rin\u021bii lui, care \u00eenva\u021b\u0103 s\u0103 le ascund\u0103 lucruri? Cum \u00eel afecteaz\u0103?<\/p>\n<p><strong>DV:<\/strong>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Pe m\u0103sur\u0103 ce comunicarea dispare, adolescentul se distan\u021beaz\u0103 \u00een comunicarea cu p\u0103rintele lui, sau poate care nu a avut niciodat\u0103 o comunicare sincer\u0103 cu acesta are \u0219anse foarte mari de a g\u0103si un grup \u00een care el s\u0103 poat\u0103 s\u0103 se exprime, s\u0103 fie acceptat. Grupurile pot fi de foarte multe tipuri. Da? De la copii func\u021bionali p\u00e2n\u0103 la copii care au tot felul de obiceiuri toxice, s\u0103 spunem. \u0218ansele s\u0103 aleag\u0103 \u00eentre \u201cbine\u201d \u0219i \u201cr\u0103u\u201d sunt acolo, n-a\u0219 putea s\u0103 spun 50%- 50%. De regul\u0103 \u00een care grup se simt ei mai aprecia\u021bi?<\/p>\n<p><strong>E\u021a:\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 <\/strong>Cel de \u201cr\u0103u\u201d? Pentru c\u0103 ies mai mult \u00een eviden\u021b\u0103?<\/p>\n<p><strong>DV:<\/strong>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Exact! Ace\u0219tia sunt cei care empatizeaz\u0103 cu adolescentul cel mai mult. \u00cen acel grup el simte confort, nu gre\u0219e\u0219te cu nimic. Adolescentul acolo se simte valorizat.<\/p>\n<p><strong>E\u021a:\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 <\/strong>P\u0103i \u0219i atunci mai bine exist\u0103 riscul ca adolescentul s\u0103 fac\u0103 o prostie, dec\u00e2t s\u0103 \u00eencerce s\u0103 se exprime \u00een alte feluri?<\/p>\n<p><strong>DV:<\/strong>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Sigur ca nu, nu e un comportament func\u021bional acesta, dar dac\u0103 \u00eencearc\u0103 o dat\u0103, de dou\u0103 ori, s\u0103 comunice \u0219i se simte neascultat sau lipsit de importan\u021b\u0103, nu mai \u00eencearc\u0103. Dar sunt foarte multe familii \u00een care copilul este ascultat, \u00een\u021beles- chiar \u0219i atunci adolescentul r\u0103m\u00e2ne rebel.\u00a0 Pentru c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 recunoa\u0219tem, adolescentul este un mic rebel, pentru care \u201clumea sunt eu\u201d. El se simte: \u201deu sunt lumea\u201d, absolut firesc pentru ciclul \u0103sta de via\u021b\u0103. \u0218i acolo este un rollercoaster permanent, s\u0103 fi p\u0103rintele unui adolescent.\u00a0 Ai nevoie de foarte mult\u0103 \u00een\u021belepciune, ai nevoie mereu s\u0103-\u021bi propui s\u0103 fi acolo pentru \u00een\u021belegerea nevoilor lui, ca s\u0103 po\u021bi s\u0103-l aju\u021bi. Deci rolul de p\u0103rinte nu-i unul foarte u\u0219or.<\/p>\n<p><strong>E\u021a:\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 <\/strong>Un adolescent este afectat de rela\u021bia dintre p\u0103rin\u021bii lui? De exemplu, dac\u0103 are p\u0103rin\u021bi\u00a0 divor\u021ba\u021bi? Sau c\u0103 ace\u0219tia se ceart\u0103 foarte des?<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-7318 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/taitung.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/Picture3-1-300x229.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"229\" srcset=\"https:\/\/taitung.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/Picture3-1-300x229.jpg 300w, https:\/\/taitung.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/Picture3-1.jpg 488w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>DV:<\/strong>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 E\u00a0 clar \u0219i evident c\u0103 un adolescent are nevoie de lini\u0219te. \u0218i de iubire. Indiferent c\u0103 st\u0103 cu mama, c\u0103 st\u0103 cu tata. E un mit. Acesta e un mit: \u201cnoi nu divor\u021b\u0103m, ca s\u0103 r\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103 copilul con\u0219tient ca are ambii p\u0103rin\u021bi!\u201d\u00a0 Dar el tr\u0103ie\u0219te \u00eentr-un mediu conflictual, unde p\u0103rin\u021bii lui se ceart\u0103, \u00een fiecare zi \u00ee\u0219i repro\u0219eaz\u0103 lucruri. Este clar c\u0103 acel copil tr\u0103ie\u0219te \u00eentr-un mediu emo\u021bional complet disfunc\u021bional \u0219i va fi un adult cu probleme de vigoare c\u00e2t \u0219i de comunicare. Anxios, conflictual, a\u0219a \u00eenc\u00e2t dac\u0103 reu\u0219esc s\u0103 se armonizeze \u00een cuplu \u0219i s\u0103 schimbe mediul, copilul poate s\u0103 se dezvolte \u0219i s\u0103 tr\u0103iasc\u0103 \u00eentr-un mediu lini\u0219tit. Iar dac\u0103 se pune problema divor\u021bului, cel mai \u00een\u021belept ar fi ca p\u0103rin\u021bii s\u0103 divor\u021beze \u00eentr-o normalitate, dac\u0103 pot s\u0103 zic a\u0219a, a bunului sim\u021b \u0219i a respectului, adic\u0103, cum spuneam, din rolul de mam\u0103 \u0219i tat\u0103 nu putem divor\u021ba. Copilul sau adolescentul nu e o minge pe care o trimi\u021bi dintr-un teren \u00een altul. Trebuie s\u0103 primeasc\u0103 aceea\u0219i iubire \u0219i din partea mamei \u0219i din partea tat\u0103lui indiferent dac\u0103 ace\u0219tia \u00ee\u0219i refac sau nu via\u021ba.<\/p>\n<p><strong>E\u021a:\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 <\/strong>De unde vine frustrarea adolescentului care \u00eel face s\u0103 zic\u0103 \u201cMama\/ tata nu m\u0103 \u00een\u021belege\u201d?<\/p>\n<p><strong>DV:<\/strong>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 E \u0219i specific\u0103 v\u00e2rstei. \u00cen adolescen\u021b\u0103 foarte mul\u021bi copii \u00eencep s\u0103-\u0219i vad\u0103 p\u0103rin\u021bii. Cum crezi ca \u00eei v\u0103d? Serio\u0219i? Dep\u0103\u0219i\u021bi \u2026! Nu? \u201cCe \u0219tiu ei?!\u201d \u00cei v\u0103d cu o genera\u021bie \u00een urm\u0103. A\u0219a \u00eenc\u00e2t adolescentul mereu, chiar dac\u0103 p\u0103rintele vine \u00een \u00eent\u00e2mpinarea lui cu un sfat bun, cu un gest de bun\u0103voin\u021b\u0103, de foarte multe ori el reprim\u0103 bunele inten\u021bii ale p\u0103rintelui. E lupta asta \u00eentre genera\u021bii. Adolescentul se afl\u0103 \u00eentr-o plin\u0103 expansiune, se dezvolt\u0103 hormonal, creierul i se dezvolt\u0103, realmente e o perioad\u0103 destul de dificil\u0103 \u0219i ampl\u0103 de dezvoltare. P\u0103rintele poate nu \u00een\u021belege toate aspectele acestea de fine\u021be \u0219i complexe \u0219i atunci aici apar conflictele.<\/p>\n<p><strong>E\u021a:\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 <\/strong>\u0218i oare de la conflictele acestea se poate ajunge \u0219i la rela\u021bii disfunc\u021bionale care \u021bin p\u00e2n\u0103 la maturitatea adolescen\u021bilor?<\/p>\n<p><strong>DV:<\/strong>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Nu a\u0219 zice lucrul \u0103sta. Cred c\u0103 fiecare p\u0103rinte \u00ee\u0219i iube\u0219te copilul \u0219i \u00eentr-un final el \u00een\u021belege c\u0103 e doar o etap\u0103 din via\u021b\u0103 prin care chiar \u0219i p\u0103rin\u021bi au trecut! Chiar dac\u0103 \u00een alt\u0103 perioad\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-7317 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/taitung.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/Picture4-300x202.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"202\" srcset=\"https:\/\/taitung.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/Picture4-300x202.jpg 300w, https:\/\/taitung.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/Picture4.jpg 462w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>E\u021a:\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 <\/strong>\u00centocmai dac\u0103 au trecut \u0219i ei prin aceast\u0103 situa\u021bie, de ce sunt unii a\u0219a de stric\u021bi \u0219i se impun vehement fa\u021b\u0103 de anumite lucruri pe care adolescentul \u0219i le dore\u0219te? Chiar dac\u0103 ei poate au f\u0103cut lucruri mai grave.<\/p>\n<p><strong>DV:<\/strong>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Ei \u00ee\u0219i asum\u0103 rolul de mam\u0103 \u0219i tat\u0103 \u00eentr-o responsabilitate exagerat\u0103, uit\u0103 c\u0103 \u0219i ei au fost a\u0219a. \u0218i de regul\u0103 p\u0103rin\u021bii, dac\u0103 nu reu\u0219esc s\u0103 impun\u0103 limite de foarte devreme copilului, simt c\u0103-l scap\u0103 de sub control. \u0218i atunci devin severi sau foarte severi. Brusc \u0219i dintr-o dat\u0103 la adolescen\u021ba copilului lor.<\/p>\n<p><strong>E\u021a:\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 <\/strong>P\u0103i da, dar c\u00e2nd p\u0103rintele e sever, adolescentul nu are tenta\u021bia mai mare de a \u00eenc\u0103lca regulile impuse.<\/p>\n<p><strong>DV:<\/strong>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Ba da. (o contrazice)\u00a0\u00a0 Aceasta este o caracteristic\u0103 a adolescentului. Cu c\u00e2t regula este mai intens impus\u0103, cu at\u00e2t mai mult el o va \u00eenc\u0103lca. Dar dac\u0103 p\u0103rintele are o comunicare constant\u0103, \u00eenc\u0103 de c\u00e2nd e mic cu copilul lui, ajunge copilul s\u0103 \u00een\u021beleag\u0103 puterea cuv\u00e2ntului. Atunci reu\u0219e\u0219te \u0219i \u00een adolescen\u021b\u0103 s\u0103 mai \u00eendulceasc\u0103 rela\u021bia cu p\u0103rintele. \u0218i p\u0103rintele ar trebui s\u0103 \u00een\u021beleag\u0103 c\u0103 da, \u021bine de perioada asta scurt\u0103\u00a0 de adolescen\u021b\u0103 \u00een care copilul \u00eencalc\u0103 regula, vorbe\u0219te peste tine, \u00ee\u021bi mai tr\u00e2nte\u0219te u\u0219a \u00een nas. Da, \u021bine numai de etapa asta.\u00a0 Nu ar trebui p\u0103rintele s\u0103 ia acest comportament at\u00e2t de serios \u0219i personal. \u021aine \u0219i de felul \u00een care func\u021bioneaz\u0103 corpul, c\u00e2t \u0219i creierul, cum se dezvolt\u0103 \u00een perioada adolescen\u021bei. E o etap\u0103 destul de bulversant\u0103. Care \u00eel bulverseaz\u0103 realmente pe adolescent.<\/p>\n<p><strong>E\u021a:\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 <\/strong>Este aceast\u0103 bulversare negativ\u0103?<\/p>\n<p><strong>DV:<\/strong>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Nu, dar e mai instabil emo\u021bional, mai trece prin perioade de anxietate, ba vrea s\u0103 fie protejat.\u00a0 Adolescentul e la grani\u021ba dintre copil \u0219i adult.<\/p>\n<p><strong>E\u021a:\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 <\/strong>\u0218i nu e foarte greu s\u0103 te afli la aceast\u0103 grani\u021b\u0103?<\/p>\n<p><strong>DV:<\/strong>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Ba da, e foarte greu. De aceea trebuie ajuta\u021bi \u0219i \u00een\u021bele\u0219i.<\/p>\n<p><strong>E\u021a:\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 <\/strong>Ave\u021bi un sfat pentru p\u0103rin\u021bii care au adolescen\u021bi?<\/p>\n<p><strong>DV:<\/strong>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Ar trebui s\u0103 fie \u00een\u021beleg\u0103tori. S\u0103 fie acolo s\u0103-i sus\u021bin\u0103 emo\u021bional, at\u00e2t cat pot. \u0218i c\u00e2nd nu pot, s\u0103 recunoasc\u0103 c\u0103 au obosit \u00een a-i mai sus\u021bine \u0219i s\u0103-i ierte, s\u0103-i iubeasc\u0103 \u00een continuare, c\u0103 sunt copiii lor.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-7316 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/taitung.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/Picture5.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"280\" height=\"213\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Mie, cel pu\u021bin, mi s-au r\u0103spuns anumite \u00eentreb\u0103ri. Pe voi poate v-a f\u0103cut s\u0103 privi\u021bi lucrurile pu\u021bin diferit. P\u00e2n\u0103 la urm\u0103, fiecare poate s\u0103 \u00een\u021beleag\u0103 din aceast\u0103 discu\u021bie ceea ce simte c\u0103 \u00eel reprezint\u0103 sau \u00eel ajut\u0103 cel mai mult. Important este c\u0103 astfel de conversa\u021bii ne fac s\u0103 ne g\u00e2ndim mai mult la rela\u021bia dintre p\u0103rin\u021bi \u0219i adolescen\u021bi \u0219i la c\u00e2t de mult conteaz\u0103 s\u0103 ne ascult\u0103m unii pe al\u021bii.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>O \u00eentrebare care m-a pus pe g\u00e2nduri a fost: \u201cCe s-a \u00eent\u00e2mplat?\u201d De ce acum, ca adolescen\u021bi, nu mai \u0219tim s\u0103 comunic\u0103m a\u0219a cum o f\u0103ceam \u00eenainte cu p\u0103rin\u021bii no\u0219tri? Poate avem impresia c\u0103 ei cu siguran\u021b\u0103 nu o s\u0103 ne \u00een\u021beleag\u0103 \u0219i ne e fric\u0103 s\u0103 nu ne judece sau s\u0103 ne certe. 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